My December blog post for the Seattle Neufeld Community published last night. Take a look and let me know what you think.
On Being Cared For
Gordon Neufeld’s integrated attachment-base developmental paradigm, and the many wonderful courses he created to share the knowledge within it, is geared to help us make sense of our children. His aim is to equip us as parents and caregivers with the the necessary insight to raise up children, bringing them to their full potential and maturity.
However, Neufeld’s paradigm is more broadly a story of human maturation and development. So as I look at my kiddos, I can’t help but notice a few bits about myself.
Nowhere do my personal weakness and lacks show up more clearly than in my marriage. There’s something about being in intimate relationship with someone and being seen and known day after day for 16 years by that same person that really shines the light on who I am being. And not being.
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